Control You Crave

Welcome to your surrender. I am Phoenix Fatale, a natural redhead Dominatrix, based in Seattle. I don’t ask for obedience; I inspire it. My world is one of total sensory immersion, where your deepest desires are not just explored, but owned. I specialize in bespoke domination sessions focused on your complete submission: expert strap-on pegging, prostate milking that rewires your pleasure, and intense edging that pushes you to the trembling edge of madness.

When you kneel for me, you are offering more than your body; you are offering your devotion. My style is intoxicatingly deliberate. A slow, sensual unraveling that will cause your ruin. I will guide you, command you, and fuck you until you forget your own name, until the only truth you know is the stretch of my cock inside you and the sound of my voice calling you a good boy. Your moans, your gasps, your desperate begs fuel my arousal. With every thrust, I feel my own arousal build, a wet, dripping testament to the power I hold over you.

This is a space where shame dissolves into ecstasy. I am here to dismantle you, to ruin you for anyone else, and to rebuild you in a state of pure, quivering devotion. Your surrender is my art form. If you are a submissive who yearns to be used, to be truly seen and utterly controlled by a powerful woman who commands with unshakable authority, then you are ready. Step into my world. Let me show you the control you crave.

Stats

Age — 30’s

Background — Scottish & Spanish

Sexuality — Queer, Pansexual

Position — Dominant, Top

Call Me — Sir, Daddy if you earn it, or simply Phoenix

Brain — Neurodivergent, Audhd

Build — Athletic, muscular, petite

Height — 5 foot 3 inches | 160 cm

Shoe Size — 6.5 US | 37 European

Hair — Natural red, curly mohawk/mullet

Grooming — Full red bush, furry underarms, naturally hairless everywhere else

Favorites

  • My go-to hydration is Liquid Death — Severed Lime and Squeezed to Death are my favorites. I don’t drink coffee, but I do enjoy Redbull in every flavor.

    For treats, I adore Seattle’s Mochinut in SLU and the exquisite macarons from Lady Yum.

    When it comes to dining, The Met Grill and Canlis are my top Seattle restaurants.

    For indulgent bites, nothing beats Alaskan King Crab or melt-in-your-mouth Japanese Hokkaido Snow Beef.

  • I have a deep love for bold accessories — jewelry, watches, shoes, and belts. My favorite statement pieces are chains, bracelets, and earrings from Vitaly. My preferred fine metal is platinum. As a petite person with small wrists, I gravitate toward sleek, silver-toned watches with black or green faces.

    My shoe closet spans from chunky boots and loafers to sky-high stilettos, with Doc Martens, Steve Madden, Christian Louboutin, and Pleaser topping my list. When it comes to belts, I love both edgy studded or spiked black belts and high-end designer belts with silver buckles. Overall, I’m drawn to pieces that embody my bold and edgy style.

    Wrist Size: 6in US/152.4 EU
    Shoe Size: 6.5 US/37 EU
    Belt Size: 32 US/80 EU

  • For self-care, I adore extended facials and massages — Anaya Spa in Seattle is my favorite retreat. For adrenaline, I seek out rage rooms, axe throwing, gun ranges, skydiving, ghost tours, and even helicopter tours. I thrive on experiences that balance indulgence with excitement.