faqs & etiquette

Seattle pegging dominatrix and milking table edging

frequently asked questions

  • I have a private incall in the Magnolia neighborhood of Seattle. There is ample free street parking, and a bus stop nearby.

    I offer outcall to 4-star+ hotels in Seattle for an additional $100, and Bellevue for an additional $200.

    I am also happy to reserve a local dungeon for us at an additional fee.

  • I’m generally available with 48 hours notice between the hours of 12:00 pm, and 9:00 pm, Meaning I start at 12 pm, and my day ends at 9 pm.

    I do not accept same-day bookings.

    However, I’ll happily make exceptions for extended dates of 3+ hours to accommodate an outing, event, or dinner.

    For overnight dates, please contact me directly with a full introduction and screening information at: phoenixfatale@pm.me

  • As Seattle’s strap-on Domme, and pleasure Top, I specialize in the BFE (boyfrriend experience), D/s dynamics, and experiences focused on your surrender.

    See my Surrender Rituals here, and my Submit Rituals here.

  • Being submissive is not necessary, however, you will need to fully surrender control to me, and trust in my guidance. I highly recommend reading my boundaries below to ensure we are a good match.

  • I will not partake in the following activities:

    • Sex

    • Uncovered face-sitting

    • Touching me without explicit consent or direction.

    • Penetration on my body of any kind

    • Switching or submission on my part

    • Non consensual play (CNC)

    • Brown/roman/ruby showers

    • Any play rooted in misogyny, homophobia, or racism

    • Humiliation surrounding body type, ethnicity, gender identity, or sexual orientation

    I always practice PRICK during my scenes which means: personal responsibility informed consensual kink. Simply stated “I know the risk, I consent to it, and I am personally responsible for managing my own well-being within this activity.”

  • Yes, I require both.

    Deposit

    I require a $100 deposit per hour booked due at the time of booking.

    Screening

    Screening often mitigates potentially life-threatening risks. If you feel your anonymity is more important than my safety, we are not compatible.

    I do require ID verification done with a selfie and your ID next to your face. Your first name, last name, your date of birth, and issue/expiration date needs to be visible. All other information may be redacted.

    All information is handled with absolute discretion, and is never shared, never stored, and never used beyond screening.

    I require all new clients to fill out my my booking form here. My form streamlines all require information which is the most efficient.

    Efficiency turns me on!

  • If it’s been over a year since our last visit, yes, you will need to screen again with me.

Etiquette

before

  • New clients are highly encouraged to fill out my booking form on my website here. Returning clients may directly email me.

    Messages will be kept professional, and direct, never exceeding more than needed.

    Do not discuss my tribute at any time.

  • I have a private incall in the Magnolia neighborhood of Seattle. There is ample free street parking, and a bus stop nearby.

    I offer outcall to 4-star+ hotels in Seattle for an additional $100, and Bellevue for an additional $200.

    I am also happy to reserve a local dungeon for us at an additional fee.

  • I value both your time and mine, and I ask for consideration when adjustments to our plans are necessary.

    • ‍No shows will be permanently banned.

    • Cancellations made within 48 hours of our scheduled time will incur a 50% fee of the reserved booking.

    • Cancellations made within 24 hours of our scheduled time will incur a 100% fee of the reserved booking.

    Should I ever need to cancel for any reason, your deposit will be fully refunded via the original method of payment.

during

  • I require you to email me to confirm our session at least 3 hours prior to our agreed upon time. Upon receiving your confirmation, I will send you my arrival instructions.


    If you don’t confirm 3 hours in advance the day of our session (unless pre-discussed) I will consider our session canceled, and my cancellation policy applies to you.

  • Upon arrival at my incall, take your shoes off, and place my tribute in the skull tray by the door.

    I’ll show you to the bathroom where you will wash your hands, and leave all personal belongings in the bathroom.

    If you use my toilet, you will do so sitting down, and closing the toilet seat upon completion.

    Our date begins and ends at the agreed upon times. Do not arrive early and expect to see me early, nor arrive late and expect me to compensate for the time lost.

  • Consent discussion is required prior to play, during this time I expect you to tell me your interests, giving me explicit consent, as well as your limitations, and any health concerns I should know about.

    Safe words are yellow (close to my limit/need a break) and red (full stop). You may also just say no, or stop, unless we previously discussed a CNC scene.

    Non-verbal safe words will be supplied for when verbal safe words are not possible, or will not be heard.

  • In-date extensions incur an additional $100 fee, on top of the difference in tribute.

    Have the additional cash ready upon agreeing to the additional time.

    Availability is always subject to my schedule and discretion.

  • I’m happy to enjoy libations with you within moderation.

    I won’t tolerate the use of illegal substances, nor over indulgences during our time together.

    If you appear to be inebriated or under the influence of any substance, our session will be canceled without refund.

after

  • If you’d like a reference request from me, I will supply two references request per each date we’ve had together.

    It must be within one year of seeing each other, and you must email me and provide information on who will be contacting me for the reference, including their website, email, and recent ad.

  • If you’d like to leave a testimonial of our time together, please keep it respectful, and non explicit.

  • If you’d like to see my again you may contact me directly, via our previous email correspondence.